Build the marriage you were made for — before life forces you to settle for less.
Close the gap between 15+ years of coaching and 4 weeks of clarity. Whole & Thriving Marriages is the deep-work program for singles preparing well and couples building intentionally. Heal what's hidden. Learn what wasn't modelled. Walk into love wide-eyed, equipped, and unafraid.
Read this if…
You're tired of guessing your way through love.
- You've watched marriages around you quietly fall apart — and you refuse to be next.
- You keep attracting the same wrong person, and you can't figure out why.
- You're engaged or married — and the things no one warned you about are already showing up.
- You want a partnership that's intimate, honest, financially aligned, and actually fun.
The promise
In 4 weeks, you'll know exactly who you are, what you need, and how to build it.
This isn't a webinar. It's a guided rebuild — with frameworks, live coaching, private counselling, and a community of people who refuse to do marriage by accident.
What you get
Everything inside the program
Each element is built to do one job: take you from where you are to a marriage that's whole, honest, and thriving.
1 × 50-minute grounding & intention-setting session
We start where you are — and map exactly where you're going.
4 × weekly live coaching sessions
Live with Grace. Real questions, real frameworks, real breakthroughs.
Healing & Purpose Toolkit
Workbooks, prompts and practices to do the deep work between sessions.
Relationship & Marriage Readiness Toolkit
For singles — the readiness audit nobody told you you needed.
1 × bespoke practical counselling session
For engaged and married — a private session built around your story.
Lifetime access to session recordings
Re-watch, revisit, re-anchor — for the rest of your marriage.
The 4-week curriculum
Two tracks. One mission: a marriage that lasts and feels good.
Healing from past hurt and dysfunctions
Name what wounded you. Break the cycles. Walk in freedom.
Becoming the right person
Stop hunting for 'the one' — and become someone worth saying yes to.
Discerning red flags
Spot incompatibility and danger early — before your heart pays the price.
Positioning for an enjoyable marriage
Build the inner life, habits, and clarity that attract a healthy partner.
Investment
Choose your track
One payment. Full access to the live sessions, toolkits, recordings and private counselling moment.
Singles track
For single adults preparing for marriage — healing, readiness and positioning for a healthy partnership.
- 4 weekly live coaching sessions
- Healing & Purpose Toolkit
- Relationship & Marriage Readiness Toolkit
- Lifetime session recordings
Couples track
For engaged and married couples — communication, intimacy, finances and expectations.
- Everything in the singles track
- Couples-focused 4-week curriculum
- 1 × bespoke practical counselling session
- Lifetime session recordings
Grace Okonta
Counsellor · Coach · Researcher
MEET OUR LEAD MARRIAGE COACH
You don't need another influencer. You need a trained guide.
Grace Okonta is a trained counsellor, certified coach and mental health researcher. For 15 years, she has helped young people find themselves and step into lives of purpose — and she's now on a mission to raise a generation of confident, resilient adults who refuse to repeat the pain of the homes they came from, lower the divorce rate and eradicate intimate partner violence.
Her work is helping singles get it right before marriage, and helping young couples understand what it actually takes to build something beautiful — then model it for the generation behind them.
- Master of Public Health (PhD in view)
- Certified Counsellor
- Certified Coach
- Trained Marriage Counsellor
- 15+ years coaching & mentoring
- Author of 3 books
- Future Forward Female in Coaching
- Mental Health Researcher
- Fellow, Royal Society of Public Health (FRSPH)
- Fellow, Academy of Public Health (FAPH)
- Member, Key Counselling UK
REVIEWS
What others who have experienced the transformation are saying
Working with Mrs. Grace Okonta has been a blessing to my life and healing journey. She has helped me uncover and process layers of hurt, trauma, and emotions that I carried for years. I am grateful for the safe space she creates, where I can openly talk through my thoughts, challenges, and experiences. Despite her busy schedule, she always makes time to offer support, guidance, and encouragement. What I appreciate most is her genuine love for people and her passion for helping others heal and grow. I am truly grateful for her impact on my life and would highly recommend her to anyone seeking healing, growth, and personal development.
One thing I appreciate about Mrs. Grace is her fairness. She does not take sides or tell people only what they want to hear. She holds everyone accountable, communicates openly, and approaches every situation with wisdom, balance, and genuine care for all parties involved.
Coach Grace deeply desires for people to get it right in marriage. This desire drives her to counsel and coach deeply. I've known her for almost a decade and I wholeheartedly trust her guidance and counsel regarding Relationships and Marriage.
FAQ
Questions you might have
- Who is Whole & Thriving Marriages for?
- It's for single adults who want to prepare well for marriage, and for engaged or married couples who want to build a strong, honest, enjoyable partnership.
- What's the difference between the singles and couples tracks?
- The singles track focuses on healing from past hurt, becoming the right person, spotting red flags and positioning for a healthy marriage. The couples track covers communication, sexual intimacy, finances and managing expectations together.
- When are the live sessions and what if I miss one?
- The program runs over 4 consecutive weeks with live group coaching. All sessions are recorded and you get lifetime access, so you never miss the teaching.
- Can my partner and I attend together?
- Yes. The couples track is designed for two people to work through the material together, including a private bespoke counselling session.
- How do I pay and in what currency?
- Payment is made securely through the enrolment link in British Pounds (GBP): £200 for the singles track and £250 for the couples track.
The marriage you want is built before the wedding.
Four weeks from now you'll either still be guessing — or you'll have the clarity, tools and support to build the marriage that you truly enjoy. Choose well.
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